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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
We'll introduce today's guests.
They are the legends of Korean soccer and basketball.
Please welcome Lee Chun So and Kim Seung Hyun.
- Go, Lee Chun Soo! - Go, Kim Seung Hyun!
They are the members of a lovely girl group, Dia.
Please welcome Jung Chae Yeon and Ki Hui Hyeon.
Welcome.
You two must be very close. You're always together.
- I was originally a soccer player. - Really?
- He used to play soccer. - Is that right?
If I didn't quit, he would still be my teammate.
They look similar too.
(Seung Hyun is shocked.)
It's...
- Seung Hyun seems offended. - Actually,
- he and I each caused trouble once. - I see.
And we caused the trouble at the same time.
So we met up for some drinks and became close.
- In the basketball world, Seung Hyun... - I'm a fan.
was famous for being loved by female celebrities.
- Female celebrities? - Yes. A lot of them liked him.
I know he's dated 1, 2, 3...
- He dated many. - Is this your first time here?
Yes. I always watched it on TV, so I'm very fascinated.
- You are not sick, are you? - No.
- Please talk a little louder. - Okay.
She has to be shy...
- because of someone. - Really?
- Actually... - Why?
- What is it? - She shot a drama with Tae Joon.
She shot a web drama with Tae Joon.
And Chae Yeon shot her first kissing scene with him.
- Really? - Tae Joon's role was a robot.
Right. I was just a robot.
- He couldn't kiss me first. - Yes.
So I had to kiss him first.
You must've been happy.
It's...
- I think I approached her a little. - I see.
- You should've waited. - I should've waited.
That's why Chae Yeon was shy.
Do you have any worries these days?
- I sometimes go through a slump. - A slump.
Whenever that happens, I don't know how to solve it.
I think among everyone here,
- she drinks soju the best. - Really?
- She drinks really well. - She's unbelievable.
- You know that, right? - We're roommates.
Whenever I go in the room after a shower, she's asleep.
And there's a bottle of soju next to her.
- Really? - She's an idol though.
- Life must be tough. - She doesn't look like that.
The other members don't like drinking.
- That's a worry. - So I drink alone.
- That's why you drink alone. - Yes.
- Soju. - Imagine an idol drinking soju on the floor.
- "Life is tough." - "How did I do today?"
She's a girl group member.
- I know. - She drinks alone.
What's the title of your new song?
- It's called "Will You Go out with Me". - I see.
- We will show you. - Please give it up for them.
(They are excited.)
("Will You Go out with Me" by Dia)
(They became even lovelier.)
(Dia makes our hearts pound like crazy.)
(They are very charming.)
(Their performance is lovely.)
(Bravo!)
We have three worries today.
Show us the keywords please.
"The Difficult Man". "I'm Anxious about My Grandma".
"My Life Is a Waste".
This is "The Difficult Man".
Hello. I'm in my 30s and have been married for 3 years.
I'm dampened 365 days a year because of my husband.
My husband looks for something whenever he comes home.
"Look at that. I knew it."
- "Come here!" - "What is it?"
"Look. The clothes are not hung properly."
"Why are you so lazy?"
"Do you think at all?"
He always looks to pick a fight.
I think he was born to yell at me.
Even while he's eating...
"Darn it. This tastes terrible. Never cook this again."
- No way. - "Why are you so stodgy?"
- What's wrong with him? - When our child gets sick,
he says, "It's your fault that she always gets sick."
"You frustrate me."
You are really good.
- He's really good. - He's good.
I never do this.
He always nitpicks at me and says spiteful things.
- He's so mean. - "Why do you always pick a fight?"
"Why do you do that?"
"Are you crying right now?"
"You're just putting on an act."
"I hate seeing it. Never cry in front of me again."
"I'm on top of you. So just be contend with your life."
Chan Woo got upset while acting.
You should take a villain role. You'll be good.
Should I go on living with this man?
Please stop him from talking rudely.
Our first guest is always dampened because of...
her husband who always nitpicks and is rude to her.
Please come on out.
(Go Eun Soon)
(Welcome)
Does your husband really nitpick at you all the time?
Whenever he comes home, his eyes change.
He looks for my faults. He checks the fridge.
He checks if there's no food waste in the sink.
- He's like a mother-in-law. - He says I'm cluttered.
He says I have no clue of what I'm doing.
- When I cook dinner for him, - Yes.
he...
(She must've gotten hurt a lot.)
- My feelings were hurt many times. - I bet.
When he eats, he says the food is too bland...
or too salty. He tells me I shouldn't bother...
- Making it. - making it. Right.
He tells me not to cook again.
Then he shouldn't eat. Why would he eat it?
I know. He was going to eat it anyway.
Is your kitchen obviously cluttered,
and is your food really bad? Is that it?
- No. - Is it not true?
It's not like that at all.
Does he talk indiscreetly?
He's very calculating.
Even when we buy groceries, he plans it.
When I buy something that's not planned,
he asks why I'm buying it and if I can't calculate.
He says I frustrate him. He says it in front of people.
He talks loud enough for people to hear.
- Does he shout? - Does he shout loudly?
- Right. - He still goes shopping with you.
- He needs to check on her. - That's why he goes.
Do you not say anything in return? Do you yell too?
- I tried fighting. - Right.
- Right. - I tried crying too.
But he says I'm just putting on an act.
- He says that when you cry. - Yes.
He says he's on top of my head.
Hearing it makes me think...
that she shouldn't be living with him.
We just began.
- We just began. - It's over. Just get divorced.
Why would you already draw a conclusion?
Let's meet her husband and ask why he nitpicks.
Hello.
Hello. I am her husband.
He doesn't look like he'd do such a thing. Right?
- He's wearing such a cute T-shirt. - Right.
Do you understand your wife's worry?
I don't understand.
This is similar to other people's stories.
- So I don't understand. - What do you mean?
It sounds like something that happens to everyone.
Are you saying all the other husbands are like you?
Well, not really.
But I assume things like this happen to others as well.
- That's what I mean. - Let's talk to him more.
Let's take it slow and go over each problem.
Do you nitpick at your wife?
I don't intentionally do it. When I eat at home,
the food is always the same.
Whether it's good or bad,
she always cooks food that has similar seasonings.
That's why I feel like the food is always the same.
- But... - What are the dishes she cooks?
Musaengchae and doenjang jjigae...
- I think that's it. - That's amazing.
You can mix doenjang jjigae and musaengchae.
- It's really delicious. - How delicious is that?
You have to make doenjang jjigae a little thick.
Don't you think it's the same with every family?
It doesn't taste good to me.
- That's why... - Just add MSG into his food.
Just add tons of MSG.
Then he will like it.
My wife doesn't like eggs or tofu.
She hates vegetables too.
So she doesn't include those...
in the meals she prepares for our daughter.
I think that will cause the imbalance of nutrition.
Our daughter gets sick often,
and I think the diet has an impact.
You think she gets sick because of the food she eats?
Yes. That's what I think.
But you eat it too. Why aren't you sick?
I'm an adult, and our baby is still young.
So if she doesn't eat a balanced meal, it affects...
- her health and makes her sick. - He talks well.
Here's what I don't understand.
- I'm getting upset. - You should trust her...
with the house work.
- But you check the fridge. - Yes.
And other things. Isn't it like...
- picking a fight? - Right.
I watch for about a week or a month.
But when I do check,
I find things rotting away in the fridge.
When I check the closet and see that the clothes...
are not organized, I intentionally don't tell her.
When I check after 1 or 2 weeks, they are the same.
- Like strangers... - You could tidy up.
- Right. - Why do you watch it for weeks?
I tidy up.
But when I do, I nag at her...
because she doesn't seem to know how.
Did you really say this to her?
Did you say you're at the top of her head?
- Yes. - That's bad.
Why did you say that to her?
She's got such a naive and nice personality...
that she can't talk back to me.
So I know she won't be able to refute what I say.
- You are bad. - That's why I seem to be...
on top of her head.
You're using her good nature.
What he just said is not a good way of...
- explaining why he came to say that. - No.
What he said is this. Since you are too nice to talk,
I can control you.
That's nonsense.
Let's say there's someone who talks better than you.
Whether his words are logical or not,
he wins whenever he talks because he talks well.
Wouldn't you feel bad if he says he has an upper hand?
- I'd feel bad. - Right?
Everyone here can beat you.
(Don't you dare try to control us.)
Do you say that to intimidate her?
- That's one. - Why?
Do you feel good when you win?
When we fight,
I nitpick at her.
I know her faults, and I carp at her.
Even if she refutes,
because our fight is based on her fault,
she can never beat me with her argument.
I talk with a fact.
The whole time, she's been...
sighing next to me.
- She's frustrated. - Do you want to refute?
He's such a nasty guy.
(He's so nasty and mean.)
Why do you say that?
- That's it. - Bravo!
Say everything.
(That was amazing.)
That's it.
Tell us.
Tell us how his accusations are wrong.
Instead of feeling sad,
I feel disgusted by him at times.
He says this sometimes.
He says he feels like living with a stranger...
- because I don't listen to him. - He hurts her ego.
Yes. He says that.
- Why do you say such spiteful things? - Yes.
- Why do you? - I intentionally say those things.
- Why? - Is it to hurt her?
I've tried talking to her nicely and badly.
We fought because of that, so I tried...
talking to her nicely. But she didn't change.
Don't you think she'd be hurt when she hears it?
- Of course I do. - You think she might change...
- Right. - if you shock her.
- That's what you think. - Right.
What do you think?
Do you think he's nasty even when you are trying hard?
I was trying hard.
But he didn't recognize my efforts.
(No matter how hard she works, he only complains.)
- Now... - Is her food that bad?
We wanted to check her food.
- That's good. - So we asked her to bring her food.
- Really? - All right.
Let's try it.
You'll be in trouble if we like her food.
If her food is good, there's no problem.
If it's really bad, we will forgive him.
Did she cook all of those?
- Did you bring everything from home? - Yes.
That's the musaengchae you were talking about.
- There's rolled omelet and spinach. - Come.
(These are the dishes her husband hates.)
- Goodness. - There's doenjang jjigae.
Let's try it.
- Did you eat? - Yes.
He already ate.
- If you ate, you can just sit there. - Okay.
- Did you eat? - I didn't eat.
Come here then.
- You ate gimbap. - Did you eat, Chae Yeon?
- No. - Come here.
- I'll taste the doenjang jjigae first. - Okay.
First of all...
Doenjang jjigae is the basic dish.
It looks...
- Try it. - It can't be bad.
- Doenjang never fails you. - Right.
- Right? - But it's too pale.
- If you add a little bit of MSG... - I think...
- it'd be better if it's cooked more. - It's good.
Doenjang can't be bad.
It's good.
(He yells at her husband.)
- It's really good. - It's good.
It's good.
- It's really good. - Mash the potato a little.
- It's amazing. - It's really good.
It's good.
I'll try the spinach.
- The potato in the soup is good. - Try it.
(They love it.)
(Tae Gyun tastes it.)
- It's really good. - That's good enough.
(Dong Yeob is quietly assessing it.)
I think...
she doesn't know how to eat it.
- It's good. - It's good.
It's not seasoned too strongly. It's nice.
- Musaengchae... - What?
- It's really good. - is just all right.
(Musaengchae is just all right.)
- The spinach is good. - Is it good?
- Seung Hyun? - Musaengchae is just okay.
- Is it good? - It's not bad at all.
It's good.
(It's good, right?)
Even the potato is seasoned well.
The soup is really good.
- It's good. - It's amazing.
- I usually eat bland. - I think...
Honestly, musaengchae is just all right.
I think he doesn't know how to eat.
- It's good. - Look. This is how you eat.
Put a dash of sesame oil.
(Is it still not good enough?)
- Look at that. - It's good.
I don't even need the spinach.
- Put some soup. - Put some soup.
- Put some soup. - Please put some here.
I think...
- I will give you more. - He doesn't know how to eat.
(That looks really delicious.)
Mix it like this.
That looks good.
- Mash the potato. - That has to be good.
- Do you want some, Seung Hyun? - I'm okay.
(I already ate.)
Why is he here?
"I'm okay."
- Why is he here? - "I'm okay."
- I thought he might want it. - People usually do.
- It's good. - It's really good.
- It's good. - How is it?
That looks good.
- It's good. - it's really good.
- Try it. - It's good.
The potato in bad doenjang jjigae is...
- Yes. - not seasoned at all.
But even the potato is well-seasoned.
I think he's ungrateful.
- Yes. - He's just ungrateful.
How can she do better?
I know.
The potato is really good.
You should marry a commercial.
This is really good.
Look. If your husband eats like this,
you'd be happy to cook, wouldn't you?
I would cook every day.
- Right. - Aren't you happy that we're enjoying it?
I love it.
It's good.
I want to eat more.
(Did you say you want to eat more?)
I want one more egg roll.
(They are having a meal.)
Chan Woo...
doesn't lie. He won't say it's good if it's not.
- He doesn't fake things. - Right.
And he doesn't eat much.
- He's ungrateful. - You should wrap up now.
Stop it.
(He eats the last bite.)
- This is good enough. - It is.
- It's lovely. - We finished everything.
(They ate all the food.)
Seung Hyun, please clean up.
(He needs to do something.)
- Do something. - You should do something.
He didn't do anything.
- Clean up. - It was really good.
Seung Hyun, bring a rag and clean the floor.
(Young Jae asks Seung Hyun to clean the floor.)
Clean the floor with a rag.
He's not doing anything.
- By the way, it's really good. - I know.
(He finally found the purpose on the show.)
- Chun Soo, I made him clean. - Good job.
- He wasn't doing anything. - Right.
You can leave with the crew.
(You can just go home.)
You should give her time to slowly change.
You shouldn't say, "Never cook this again."
- She must feel sad. - He doesn't know how to talk.
Can't you talk nicely?
- I want to talk nicer. - Okay.
She doesn't do anything right.
I want her to do things well.
But she cooks well. What's wrong?
It just doesn't suit your palate.
- There's your daughter. - There's your daughter too.
Is your palate all that matters?
Of course not. So I was thinking...
she could cook two things when she cooks.
One can suit my palate and...
That's nonsense.
(Everyone gets upset.)
(She's enraged.)
Don't you think she can't do things well...
and she's always timid...
because of the way you treat her?
Don't you think you're making it worse?
I'm worried about that too.
(He says he's worried.)
- Okay. - Like what she mentioned earlier,
whenever we go grocery shopping,
my wife always asks me questions.
She asks if she should buy it or not.
If she's cooking jangjorim,
she could calculate...
how much meat she should buy and buy it.
But she can't calculate it, so she asks me...
how much she should buy.
- You think it's frustrating. - Right.
She's frustrating because you made her that way.
- Right. - It's because you scold her.
You scold her every time,
so she's afraid she'll be scolded again...
- and get into a fight. - If she buys too much,
you'd say, "Why did you miscalculate and buy more?"
If she buys too little, you'd say,
"You bought too little because you're thoughtless."
- That's why she asks. - It's endless.
(I'm suffocating, honey.)
You keep talking harshly to her even if it does no good.
- It's only good for relieving your stress. - Yes.
It's only to please yourself.
In the end, it only got you here.
- I know. - It doesn't do any good.
And you should realize it fast.
Besides, there's nothing wrong with her.
Who are you to ask her to change?
- What's wrong with buying more meat? - Marriage...
is all about being considerate about each other.
- It's tough. - She's getting more timid.
- She... - After saying that he's nasty,
- she's been like this. - I know.
Eun Soon,
has he ever said anything else...
that really hurt you deeply?
When we fight, and he gets really upset,
he belittles my parents.
- What? - Does he?
- How? - He's bad.
How does he belittle your parents?
My dad is from Chungcheong Province.
So he's very relaxed.
He said I'm lazy too because my dad is lazy.
(He said she's just as lazy as her father.)
- Is he mad? - How dare he belittle Chungcheong?
- I can't understand him. - Chungcheong Province...
I was born in Jecheon of North Chungcheong Province.
(The two people from Chungcheong Province are mad.)
(Are you looking down on Chungcheong Province?)
(He made a mistake.)
- Really... - How dare you?
How can you look down on my province?
- When... - That's unbelievable.
I was 10, my parents couldn't cope with their...
- personality differences and... - Did they split up?
- Yes, they split up when I was young. - Right.
He uses that against me when we fight.
- Wait. - He uses it to fight?
- When you fight. - What's wrong, Chun Soo?
- I'm afraid... - When we fight...
to hear what she's going to say.
When we fight big,
- I'm afraid our daughter will be hurt. - Right.
- You can't fight in front of a child. - I try to...
avoid him because I don't want the fight to get bigger.
And he said that I'm no different from my mother.
Oh, my gosh.
Goodness.
It's really nasty to use her family against her.
- That's really nasty. - Is there more?
Why did you have to go that far?
- That's... - That's not a shock therapy.
You're saying things without filtering it.
Let me ask him. He might say something else.
Did you really talk to her like that?
Yes.
(He admits it fast.)
- Why did you say it? - Why?
Whenever we go to her father's house,
because he's alone, it's very messy.
He sometimes comes to our place and spends a night.
When he comes home from outside, I want him...
to clean up because there's a child in the house.
But he doesn't do that.
How about her mother then?
Whenever they fight, she avoids the situation.
So whenever we fight,
my wife tries to avoid it too.
So according to what you said,
you will end up like your parents-in-law.
- That can't happen. - Right. So why say that?
You said her indecisiveness is frustrating.
Yes. What's worse than that is...
- an anger management issue. - Yes.
You have an anger management issue.
That's not okay.
I want you to put yourself in her shoes.
How would you feel if she belittled your parents?
- You would feel very frustrated. - He will go mad.
- Think about that. - He will destroy everything.
Belittling someone's family is really bad.
Do you feel good when you say such hurtful things...
to your wife? Don't you feel bad?
- I feel bad. - Do you apologize to her?
Yes. I apologize to her the next day.
But the same thing happens, so...
I wonder how he apologizes.
- How does she apologize? - She doesn't look happy.
- Here's how he apologizes. - Okay.
He doesn't come home and say,
"I'm sorry about what I did yesterday."
"I'm sorry. I'm sorry."
- "I was bad." - He sends me a text message.
"Eun Soon, I think I went over the line yesterday."
"I won't do it again."
But I am not sure...
- if he really... - Yes.
- feels sorry? - Does he repeat it?
It's really strange to apologize through a text.
You have to look into her eyes and apologize.
Do you lack courage to do that?
I'm bad at expressing my feelings.
- He can't express your feelings. - He can't do that.
You act nasty, but you can't apologize.
Do you not apologize again in person?
- No. That's all I do. - Is that it?
Yes. That's how I apologize.
You are so selfish.
- You only do what you want. - Right.
(Does he think it's the right way to apologize?)
A big shopping outlet opened near our place,
so we went there with my father. It rained that day.
So we took one big umbrella.
He asked the information desk to keep it for him.
But they refused, so he got into a quarrel.
I wanted to avoid the situation, so I left with my dad.
And he suddenly followed me.
There were a lot of people surrounding us,
and he loudly shouted, "Stop! Where are you going?"
Did he do that in front of your father?
For him, I am a precious daughter, you know?
Right.
(Her father watched everything.)
I am.
Actually, my dad is deaf.
I think all dads would be the same.
He felt so sad to watch the situation,
and he couldn't bear watching it anymore,
so he chose to look away.
- I... - He looked away and pretended not to see it.
Right. I felt so sorry to watch that.
Do you talk nasty in front of your father-in-law?
I was so upset.
They refused such a small request.
He has an anger management issue.
She should've waited for me,
but she left first as if she was ashamed of me.
I thought he couldn't hear it even if I shouted.
- Then... - That's worse.
It made me sad because...
I understand her completely.
If her mother was beside her until she...
grew up, she would've expressed her feelings more.
But she always had to suppress her emotions.
Her father must be her sore spot.
Do you think she's faking her cry?
Why are you trying to fight?
- But do you? - I am curious.
Do you think her tears are fake?
- What's this? - Why can't you give an answer?
I want her to be sincere. But...
- that emotion doesn't last. - He doesn't trust her.
Do you think any of this is insincere?
- How can you think like that? - How can you?
- This is why he acts the way he does. - Then...
in the back of your mind, do you think she's faking it?
- Right. - What's the reason?
At first, I trusted her.
(Her lips are trembling.)
We trusted each other because we were married.
- He's unbelievable. - But she didn't change.
So even when she cries...
You think she cries all the time but never changes.
- That's right. - He's really bad.
- You have to change together. - Right.
But you're saying you'll change if she changes.
No, if my wife changes, I will...
- That's what we just said. - That's what we said.
- You'll change only if she changes. - Why?
You don't think you can change to make her change.
- No. - You don't respect someone,
but if that person has more power,
you can fake yourself to be nice and smile to him.
You can be fake to appeal to someone.
But in this situation, why would she fake her tears?
What is she being fake for?
I think she's very wise to cry when you fight.
It's her way of showing that she's weak.
If you married me, I would've killed you.
- I feel so bad for her. - Really.
I think he's unbelievable.
(I am sorry.)
How does he treat other people?
- People like him treat others well. - Very well.
He's very good to other people.
(He's an angel to other people.)
- I hate that. - That's the worst.
He's the type Chun Soo hates.
He looks like a cute kitty...
in front of his friends.
- He's known as a good friend. - Yes.
Yes. He's a naive friend.
His friends must ask him for favors.
Do his friends ask him for favors?
Yes. Instead of saying, "Can you please lend me money?"
They say, "Can you lend me money?"
- They are so rude. - "Hey, lend me some money."
- Right. - They think he's easy.
- He even gets a loan to lend to his friends. - What?
He lends them 700, 1,000 dollars.
- Do they pay him back? - No.
- Why not? - Does he not ask them to?
- He can never do that. - Why?
He doesn't expect to get paid back.
You scold your wife for buying a little extra meat.
Why can't you ask them to pay you back?
I like giving to my friends and other people.
I like being generous.
Please don't do that.
Can't you filter what you say?
You should know what to say.
(Doesn't he have a filter?)
- Filter it. - He treats strangers better.
So Seung Hyun is right then.
- It's better to be strangers. - Yes.
- As a result... - He's on other people's side.
Perhaps you don't have enough money...
because you spend money on your friends.
- Right. - Right?
- I admit that. - He admits it right away.
He's not a bad person. He admits his faults.
I spend a lot,
and I tend to waste money. So I thought...
she could work while our daughter is...
away at school. That way, we will have...
- You want her to work. - You want her to work.
Yes. I want her to work too.
You can stop lending money to your friends. - Yes.
- He wants her to earn money too. - I want her...
to be wise and work part-time...
when our daughter is away.
You want her to work part-time.
Do you...
He's been saying that ever since I gave birth.
He said I should work because all the other moms do.
Then why didn't you work?
I couldn't neglect my child.
- My parents are both deaf, - Yes.
so I couldn't talk to them.
Because I grew up in that environment,
I want to raise my daughter with love.
I want to take good care of her.
- But what did your husband say? - What did he say?
He told me not to use her as an excuse.
- Goodness. - He told me not to use her.
He talks so nicely, doesn't he?
I do all the housework these days, so I know.
It doesn't suit you at all.
- You look different. - Your wife works.
My wife works, and I do the chores when I get time.
You really don't get a lot of time.
- When you do the chores. - There's a lot of work.
I don't even have time for a nap.
- You don't even have that time. - No.
So I understand that she doesn't have time.
From her point of view, I feel so sad for her life.
For him, she's just a troublemaker.
- He keeps nodding. - I...
I'm sure he's been looked down on...
and disregarded by other people.
- And he's doing that to his wife. - He's ugly.
That means you disrespect your wife.
That's what you are doing.
(Please respect your wife.)
What do you want from your husband?
- I want him to compliment me. - Compliment.
And when we fight, he says he doesn't trust me.
- There's no love. - Why did you decide to marry her?
I felt like she cared for me and loved me a lot.
That's why I thought...
it would be better to choose her...
because I felt her love.
Then why do you express so much anger now?
I still believe that my wife loves me.
I believe that.
- Where does his confidence come from? - she doesn't.
She doesn't love you now.
She has a pretty face.
She looks like...
a very pretty Park Ji Sun.
(A very pretty Park Ji Sun)
I am serious.
(No one can dispute it.)
I am serious.
I wanted to say the same thing.
Why did you say that?
Her husband looks like a very handsome Lee Chun Soo.
That's right.
- He does look mean. - I am serious.
You should compliment her often.
Eun Soon wants to receive...
more compliments.
Compliments make people happy.
Why don't you compliment her?
I am not good at expressing myself.
You are not good at expressing yourself.
(It only applies to compliments and apologies.)
The problem is that you know and trust your wife a lot.
"She is a good woman who loves me."
"That's why she will obey..."
- "no matter what I say." That's your belief. - Yes.
- It is, right? - Yes.
If you believe that, you should be nice to her.
You torment her...
every day...
because you know she is good to you.
- Yes. - It's the meanest thing you can do.
(People on your side aren't for your entertainment.)
Chun Soo, do you think it's a worry?
I think it's a worry.
(Chun Soo thinks it's a worry.)
I played sports.
I hate people who mistreat those on their sides.
I think he needs to change.
- Would you coach him after the shoot? - Seriously.
I am getting ready for it.
- All right. - Seung Hyun.
Do you think it's a worry?
- I won't press the button. - Okay.
- Why not? - If her husband makes more money,
Eun Sook won't have a problem.
- She will do better. - That's right.
You should question your capabilities.
(You should question your capabilities.)
It's a unique opinion.
You are not capable.
(Question your capabilities.)
- I won't press the button. - Why not?
I think it's a worry.
A one-way interaction doesn't help a relationship.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Please say a few words to your wife.
Tell her what's on your mind.
I will always love you. No matter what anyone says,
I love you very much.
That's why I want to fix you.
I do what I do to for your own sake.
Fix yourself.
- Is she broken? - You won't be able to fix her.
- Stop trying to fix her. - I know.
Take this opportunity to apologize...
- to your father-in-law. - That's right.
- Which camera is it? - You broke his heart.
Look at this camera.
I am sorry for my harsh words...
and my wrongdoings. I will reflect on myself.
I wonder how many votes he received.
Show us the result.
"The Difficult Man".
He is difficult.
Of course it went over 100.
I am guessing 135.
It should be 195.
(What will be the result?)
That's a lot of votes.
(The worry received 145 votes.)
I will read the next worry.
"My Life Is a Waste".
Hello, I am a housewife who is 45 years old.
I have the first daughter who is 22 years old...
and the second daughter who is 20 years old.
"Girls."
"I made my decision. From now on,"
"I will become an actress."
First daughter.
- "Do whatever you want." - "Sure."
(They give such half-hearted answers.)
Her daughters give...
such half-hearted answers.
- They can act well. - That's right.
"Girls,"
"this is for the audition."
"Would you send my profile via an email?"
"I am busy."
"In that case,"
"my second daughter can help me."
"I don't want to."
(She really looks annoyed.)
- She is good. - I know.
It's no wonder she had a kissing scene.
She is the female lead.
This is what happens when I practice acting at home.
"Romeo! wherefore art thou Romeo?"
"Gosh, you are so loud. Keep it down."
- "Romeo." - "I am sick and tired of this."
(She didn't have to cut me off.)
This is nothing.
This is what annoys me further.
"Mom, why didn't you wake me up?"
"I told you I have to go out. Where are my socks?"
"Look for them. Didn't you wash them?"
This is what my second daughter says.
"Mom, give me a meal. I am hungry."
I am not their housekeeper.
I want to find a passion in my life,
but they make me sad.
Please help me...
so that my daughters will support my dream.
What do you think of the worry?
If I were the one who sent the worry,
- I would scold them. - You will scold the daughters.
- That's right. - Why?
You understand her position.
She helped them grow into beautiful ladies.
Every parent has a dream.
I don't think it's right...
for the children to hamper it.
It's incredible she wants to be an actress at her age.
She is cool.
- I think her daughters should help her. - I know.
- It's a difficult path. - That's right.
Perhaps her daughters try to dissuade her...
because they know that.
I want to hurry up and see who she is.
I think the girls' mother will be very pretty.
- They are beautiful. - All right.
Let's invite her to the stage. Please come on out.
(Who wants to be an actress at the age of 45?)
(Park So Young)
(Welcome)
Please introduce yourself. That's my leg.
(That's my leg.)
(It felt as comfortable as a cushion.)
It must have felt comfortable.
I thought it was a cushion.
You are mean.
(Hitting)
(It hurts.)
- Please introduce yourself. - Did you hear that?
I am a 45-year-old and an aspiring actress...
who wants to be the second La Mi Ran, Park So Young.
She is cool.
You have a dream of becoming an actress.
Since when did you have that dream?
I am from Daegu.
I took a train to Seoul at the age of 20...
- and went to the academy. - An acting academy.
Yes. I passed the audition.
(She passed the audition to join the academy.)
At that time, I was seeing my current husband.
He was strongly against the idea when I told him.
That's why I gave up on my dream...
and got married at a young age.
- You got married at a young age. - Yes.
She is 45 years old and her daughter is 23 years old.
Five years ago, I remembered by dream.
I worked as an extra.
Are you working as an extra?
Yes. My face briefly appears.
Which dramas did you appear in?
- It can be a film. - Among KBS dramas...
- Give us a title. - "Love in the Moonlight".
("Love in the Moonlight")
"Love in the Moonlight".
(It's a title that makes everyone's heart flutter.)
- I was also in "Wang's Family". - "Wang's Family'.
It had a high rating.
I was in it.
What was your role in "Wang's Family"?
I played a woman on a ride at an amusement park.
Let's check out the scene.
(We prepared the scene.)
Is she one of those people?
- Where are you? - Where are you?
Where are you?
(Look for her.)
Where are you?
Did the scene pass?
- I was in the middle. - The middle.
Where are you?
Tell us where you are.
Is she wearing a green outfit?
- That's me. - My goodness.
(Did you find her?)
- Did you find her? - I didn't see her.
She hid.
Let's take another look.
- I want to see her. - Can you rewind it?
Please rewind it.
Do we need to watch the clip from here?
(Do we need to watch the clip from here?)
It can't be helped.
Okay.
- I am in a light blue outfit. - Where is she?
A light blue outfit.
- She will be in the back. - That's a man.
(Chun Soo found her.)
Where is she?
She is behind Oh Man Seok's head.
She is between their heads.
- She is right there. - Look between their heads.
She is behind Oh Man Seok's head.
Look between their heads.
Please remove the lead actors.
My goodness.
We had to look carefully.
I ran down because there was a camera.
- There was a camera. - I wanted to be in the frame.
You wanted to be in the frame.
Let's see another one.
This will be a better scene.
Let's look for her.
- Where is she? - She passed by.
It was a good shot of her.
- It was a good shot of her. - I know.
- I saw her. - Her entire body showed.
It was a good shot of her.
I didn't see her.
Let me take another look.
All right.
(I see.)
(She is taking a big portion of the screen.)
She looks different on screen.
I had short hair back then.
- I see. - She is tall.
Is there another one?
Look for her more comfortably. Where is she?
- Where is she? - Look for her.
Seung Hyun, can you find her?
She is with a daughter.
- A daughter? - A daughter.
Show us the answer.
That's her.
What was this for?
It was for "The Rebel".
"The Rebel".
- "The Rebel". - She is tall.
There is another one, right?
It will be hard to find her in this one.
- This is impossible. - Give it a try, Chun Soo.
Look for her.
Wait a minute.
- Look for her. - She has short hair.
- There. - She is next to the microphone.
- Look for her. - She is next to the microphone.
- A microphone. - She is next to a microphone.
- She is next to a microphone. - Give us the answer.
- My goodness. - It's impossible to find her.
(What is this?)
- My goodness. - It's impossible to find her.
(Here is the answer.)
- My goodness. - It's impossible to find her.
This is ridiculous.
I thought she was in the back.
That person looks like her.
- She has short hair. - The one next to a microphone.
(Is she a doppelganger?)
The one under the microphone on the left, right?
What was this for?
"My Love from the Star".
- "My Love from the Star". - The audience...
became excited to find her.
(Excited)
We had our fun, but So Young dreams...
- of becoming the second La Mi Ran. - Wait a minute.
Did you send a worry to Hello...
so that you will get cast in other dramas?
- Is that why you sent a worry? - He is pessimistic.
He is distrustful.
I understand.
- She understands. - You understand.
I put my dream aside for my family for 20 years.
I am desperate to revisit...
and realize my dream.
It would be nice if my family supports me,
but even my daughters won't do that.
Is your husband still against it?
He says, "I don't care what you do,"
"but finish household chores before you go out."
My daughters say, "Give it a try."
- They say it in a condescending way. - That's right.
It makes me sad.
Perhaps they are worried that you would struggle.
They might be worried.
Can't you change their mind...
- with good results? - They aren't stopping you.
When I am out, my family can't eat.
- I can't make a meal for them. - They are grownups.
They don't want to take out the dishes.
What is wrong with your daughters?
I work under a big pressure.
All right. Let's talk to her daughters.
Seung Hyun, would you say hello to them?
You said that they are pretty.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Hello. - Seung Hyun, ask them questions.
What do you do for a living?
You aren't on a blind date.
- Seriously. - Wake up.
Don't you want to support your mom?
You could make your own meals.
What do you think about that?
I am not against...
- her pursuing her dream. - Okay.
I think that's enough of a support.
I don't understand why we are on this program.
She is sad because you are uncaring.
If she is good at acting, I would give reaction.
However, I don't think she has talent.
She hasn't shown any considerable results.
- No. - What does the second daughter think?
I don't expect much from my mom.
Can't you still give her your support?
I am not very interested in her dream.
Seeing your reactions tells me...
you doubt she has a chance in becoming an actress.
Be honest.
- Yes. - I feel the same.
Your daughters must say that...
because you have no chance.
Why would they say such things otherwise?
I think I have talent.
Do you try hard?
- Yes, I do. - She is upset at her daughters.
I read books and newspapers to practice...
reading the script. Acting requires...
- various talents. - That's right.
I am taking vocal and drum lessons.
- You are learning how to play drums. - Show us.
Your daughters look down on you.
That's right.
Please begin.
Let me have a drink of water.
(She takes a drink of water to soothe her nerves.)
You haven't talked for a long time.
Are you nervous? Please begin.
("Colors of the Wind" from "Pocahontas")
(You think the only people who are like you)
(Are the people who think like you)
(She puts her heart into the lyrics.)
(She hopes that her daughters will understand her.)
(We enjoyed listening to you.)
She sang well even though she was nervous.
What did you think?
She sang better than I expected.
Although she doesn't have talent to become a singer,
you should understand that she is trying hard.
You might be embarrassed by her dream,
but you shouldn't be annoyed with her.
She won't feel sad if you treat her more gently.
What do you think about that?
She often asks me...
to take pictures for her profile.
Even when I do that, she looks at the result and says,
"Is this all you can do? Take prettier pictures."
She keeps on saying that.
Then I lose my patience and say,
"I can't do anything about the way you look."
Not only that, she shows me her videos on acting...
and asks me to evaluate her.
Then I say, "It's nice. You did well."
However, my reactions don't satisfy her.
She goes, "Is that all you can say?"
"Why are you so disinterested? Should I fix something?"
She doesn't stop asking me those questions.
It seems like there is an answer she wants.
Can't you give her that answer?
- Give her that answer. - I can't do that.
It's upsetting because when I ask her for a favor,
she claims that I always ask her for favors.
I am hopeless at using computers.
I have to beg my daughters to help me.
They get annoyed. The pictures need to be retouched,
but they do it in no time and sent them.
- It must make you sad. - It makes me very sad.
They make it harder for me to ask the next time.
- It's hard to get their help. - You become nervous.
Yes. I become nervous.
She got married young and gave up her dream...
to raise her daughters. Don't you think it's sad?
It's sad, but don't you think it was her choice?
You can still support her.
While I am thankful...
to my parents for raising me,
they shouldn't use that fact as a bargaining chip.
"Why won't you do this for me..."
"when I raised you?" When she does that,
- it's hard. - Does she say that very often?
She says it five times a week.
Five times a week.
So Young, why did you say it five times a week?
Your daughters are sick and tired of it.
They are not the only ones I have raised.
My mother-in-law lived with us, too.
You looked after her.
Yes. She had bad joints and got a joint implant.
I looked after her during that time.
I got so stressed out from looking after everyone.
In the end, I got hepatitis A.
Even after I got released from the hospital,
- I suffered from shingles. - You were stressed out.
Your struggles caused deep sorrow.
My husband succeeded without the help of his family.
Since we didn't have much, I worked part-time jobs...
to support the family.
- You did that when your daughters were young. - Yes.
Since I am good with my hands, I sewed...
and worked with electrical wires.
I even assembled transformers.
- Transformers. - Yes.
- Was it a part-time job? - Yes.
Did you know that your mom had these jobs?
Yes, since I was young at the time,
I simply thought she wanted to make more money.
I didn't know she had given up on her dream.
I think differently.
She is annoying.
- Really? - I think differently...
because she didn't give me much attention...
when I was young.
- She didn't give you attention. - No.
When I was in elementary school,
I never attended my friends' birthday parties.
- Why not? - There is a reason.
She was never aware of my schedules.
She even forgot about my birthday.
I don't have a dream yet.
I am studying various things.
She never gave me reactions...
no matter how well I did in tests.
By never giving me much attention,
she hurt my feelings.
Did you know about this?
- I am sure she has her reason. - I feel bad.
I forgot about everyone's birthday.
I even forgot about my birthday.
It's not a matter of So Young's dream in acting,
but communications between mom and daughters.
So Young looks reserved.
She doesn't seem to have talent in acting.
Since the daughters are used to this side of her,
it might have been hard for them...
to accept her dream of becoming an actress.
You have never seen her act, right?
- Rarely. - You have rarely seen her act.
I have only seen her practice.
Why don't you show them how you act?
- Okay. - Why don't you take a look...
and give her an honest review?
- Okay. - Don't be biased, okay?
Firstly, show us an act you are confident about.
- An act I am confident about? - Yes.
I can cry well.
- Sobbing. - I can cry well.
- Sobbing. - Really?
- You said that you like La Mi Ran. - Yes.
- Okay. - The production team prepared a scene.
Please watch and reenact the scene.
Sam Do, take care.
(She cries as she take a picture for her funeral.)
I will be leaving first.
It's a difficult scene.
I will take a picture. In 1, 2.
(Concentrating)
It's upsetting the more I think about it.
(La Mi Ran's act draws everyone in.)
It's too upsetting to die.
She is a good actress.
(Will she be able to pull off the scene?)
Mom.
I miss my mom.
It's a difficult scene.
- I got goosebumps. - It's a difficult scene.
- I got goosebumps. - She did an amazing job.
(They got goosebumps from watching a short clip.)
- Will she be able to pull it off? - I know.
Would you be able to do it?
I won't be able to do it the same way.
Of course. You can reinterpret the scene.
That's La Mi Ran's act. Okay. Stand by.
- Let me become absorbed in my emotions. - Okay.
Tell us when you are ready.
Stand by.
(Ready)
- Okay. - Action.
(Action)
I am here to take a picture for my funeral.
(The daughters are nervous as well.)
My daughters, I will be leaving first.
(Viewers, take a moment to enjoy her act.)
Take care.
Let's end it here.
(Good job.)
Thank you.
- You know... - It was a bit...
Even an actress will find it hard to do what she did...
- in this atmosphere. - It's quite a feat.
It's quite a feat.
I guess you don't cry often.
Why do you say that?
Her eyes became wet.
- It took a long time. - They came easily...
- when I practiced. - I see.
She did better than I expected.
Let's see another act. It's a scene by La Mi Ran.
Please show us.
I think there has been a misunderstanding.
A misunderstanding, my foot.
I remember this scene. She misunderstood.
(She suspects her husband's infidelity.)
(She grabs the other woman by the hair.)
(Concentrating)
I will make you a featherless chicken!
A featherless chicken.
(Will she be able to show an angry act?)
Let's take a look. Tae Joon, help her.
- Okay. - Please get ready.
- What should I do? - Please...
stand up.
- Please stand up. - She will get her hair pulled.
I will play the husband.
Daughters, give her a cue.
Ready.
- Action. - Action.
I think there has been a misunderstanding.
You... Why aren't you stopping me?
(Why aren't you stopping me?)
Honey.
I am sorry, Honey.
Move out of the way. I will do it.
You can grab my hair.
You should have stopped her.
(I feel like she will protect me.)
Cue.
So Young, it's a misunderstanding.
A misunderstanding?
It's a misunderstanding.
(Even she finds the situation ridiculous.)
Honey.
- A misunderstanding? - Wait a minute.
I think it really is a misunderstanding.
I think it's a misunderstanding.
(Laughing)
Let's try it one more time.
You can grab my hair. Do it right.
- Hey. - Honey.
Honey, it's a misunderstanding. Let go of her.
A misunderstanding?
What is this?
(It's a ruckus.)
Wait a minute.
You will die.
(They end it here to protect So Young.)
Give her a round of applause.
Isn't she quick-witted?
Even though I grabbed her hair,
she didn't become flustered.
She did it to survive.
Let's hear what the daughters thought.
Even though people laughed,
she stayed committed to the scene.
It made me realize that she is sincere.
"She really wants to be an actress."
What did you think of the sobbing scene?
She could have done better.
- She could have done better. - Yes.
Let's hear from the first daughter.
I think highly of her courage.
However,
(However?)
I don't think she has talent.
(Hurt)
She is mean.
Seung Hyun, what did you think of her act?
Give us an objective review.
I teared up a bit.
- The sobbing scene. - Yes.
She did a good job.
I felt...
my emotions well up...
because it looked like she was upset at her daughters.
(It looked like she was upset at her daughters.)
There is something I want her daughters to know.
As you saw, it was hard to find her in a scene.
She passed by in an instant.
So Young's daughters wouldn't know...
how much of an effort she needs to make...
in order to film such scene.
Only those who have been to the set...
would understand.
Likewise, So Young's daughters...
have no way of knowing...
how she have lived in the past 20 years...
to take care of her family.
That's why So Young can't help...
- but feel sad. - That's right.
I didn't know she had these thoughts.
I feel bad.
I will refrain from complaining and treat her well.
- Okay. - Being a family...
makes us more straightforward with each other.
I hope my mom wouldn't be hurt by my words.
There are times she acts childish.
"Don't wear my clothes."
"I won't do your laundry."
I hope she wouldn't do that.
You should do your own laundry.
(Mom, let's stay close.)
Chun Soo, do you think it's a worry?
I don't think it's a worry.
So Young and her daughters figured out...
how to communicate and be considerate of each other.
That's why I don't think it's a worry.
I also don't think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry.
Unless they become mothers,
they wouldn't understand her.
(Clapping)
I also think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Say what you want to say to your daughters.
Min Seo.
I have hurt you when you were little.
I am sorry about it.
I thought you had a dream,
but you said that it's still undecided.
I hope we can have a conversation...
over a drink.
(Let's talk about it.)
Show us how many votes the worry got.
"My Life Is a Waste".
("My Life Is a Waste")
Will it get over 100 votes?
(Will it beat "The Difficult Man"?)
That's unexpected.
Will it be 119?
Her worry received 139 votes.
(139 votes)
Thank you.
This is from someone who gets anxious in spring.
Hi, I'm a woman in her 30s who suffers from nightmares.
Please stop...
my 82-year-old grandma.
"Out! How is that a strike?"
"Those little jerks!"
"Someone ought to kill them."
"Change the player."
"What fools!"
"Do you call that baseball?"
- "For goodness' sake." - It's about baseball.
My grandma is obsessed with baseball.
That's cool.
She turns into Hulk when she watches baseball matches.
This happened when we had prepared for a trip.
"Grandma, we should go."
"My team lost yesterday. I am not going. It's over."
This is what worries me more.
"There is no point in eating when my team lost."
"I don't need anything."
She puts down the spoon...
and doesn't come out of her room.
That's worrying.
I am anxious that something will go wrong.
Please help.
(Please stop my grandma, the baseball enthusiast.)
All right.
She is 82 years old.
It would make more sense if it's her grandpa.
- I know. - She is passionate.
She is giving her granddaughter a hard time.
Let's see who sent the worry. Please come on out.
(Yoon Sun Joo)
(Tae Joon has manners.)
Does she refuse to eat when her team loses?
Yes, my grandma is a big fan of Lotte Giants.
- You must live in Busan. - Yes.
When it's time for a baseball match,
she sits in front of the TV.
It starts off nicely.
She cheers for Lotte Giants...
and says that they are doing well.
When the team doesn't do well...
and loses a point,
- she swears. - She swears.
Yes, she does. She motions transferring energy.
"Don't do that." She motions transferring energy.
"Don't do that." She doesn't stop.
- Does she really swear? - Yes.
- How does she swear? - It's very bad.
What kind of swear words does she use?
You won't be able to air them on TV.
- Your grandma uses those swear words. - Yes.
We will bleep the words. I am just curious.
She goes...
Oh no.
(That was the most aggressive swear word ever.)
- The swear word... - Wasn't it you who said that?
- I'm serious. - What did you say at the end?
- To the opposing pitcher. - She hates it...
when the opposing team does well.
Was there a reason why she became so into baseball?
It's rare that old women get hooked on baseball.
About 10 years ago, Lotte Giants...
changed their artificial turf into natural grass.
My grandma worked part-time with some other ladies...
to plant the grass there.
When she watches baseball, she'd point at...
the first base and say, "I planted the grass there."
"I planted the grass there myself."
- She must be attached to it. - That's right.
- I think so. - Since then, she liked baseball.
- Baseball has complicated rules. - I see.
Does she really know all the rules?
She knows a home run, a strikeout, and an out.
- That's what she knows. - Home runs and strikeouts.
I was really surprised when she wrote something...
- on a notebook. - On a notebook?
- Does she keep track of the record? - I saw...
what it was. It was a record of the team's wins...
and losses including how many games it played.
- Like a recording paper? - Like a recording paper.
- A note of victories and defeats. - What's written?
Gosh, it has all the record of what was going on.
(Filled)
She has a good handwriting.
At Jamsil...
The interesting part is, it's her own method.
- The scores are not written. - She only marks...
- the outcome. - The victories and the losses.
They indicate how many wins it got in three games.
I actually envy her passion.
- I really envy her. - People say it's not a worry,
but I'm worried because she lives alone.
It's been about six years since my grandpa passed away.
I'm anxious every day...
because if the team loses, she skips meals.
- She has high blood pressure. - She skips meals.
I'm afraid she'll faint again after getting excited.
- That'll make you worried. - When I call her on...
the day Lotte Giants loses, she doesn't answer.
- She doesn't answer? - She doesn't answer.
There's no problem if it wins then.
- No, that's a problem too. - Why?
Once the game is over, it's played over and over.
- That's right. The reruns. - The highlights.
She watches all of them. She watches all sports news.
One day, she called me...
a little after 6am. "Sun Joo,"
"why is there a baseball game at dawn?"
- What? - She lost her sense of time.
She doesn't even know what time it is.
- She likes it so much. - She doesn't know if it's...
dawn or morning. She suffers from insomnia and naps.
They keep playing games nonstop on sports networks.
Sports networks keep airing them.
I think she likes baseball more than I thought.
We'll meet her grandmother who makes the whole...
family worried with her love of baseball. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
- She looks hale and hearty. - She looks healthy.
What year were you born?
- In 1936. - 1936. My goodness.
- That's right. My father was born in 1935. - Right.
You missed the game today. How do you feel?
- I watched it. - How?
- You watched it while waiting? - I saw it here.
- They lost today. - That's right. Lotte Giants lost.
- How do you feel? - Not good.
If you score only by the end around the ninth inning,
- there's no time. - My gosh.
That's why we lost by one point.
- How was the game yesterday? - Yesterday...
- we won by 1 point. - Exactly.
- You must have been glad. - We won.
She was glad because they won. However, since they...
lost today, she said she doesn't want to be here.
- The show? - "I don't want to be on the show."
When they lose, she complains for no reason.
- When they win... - She suddenly felt good today.
- Her mood changes depending on the result.
Her mood swing is a bit extreme.
You didn't want to be on the show because of the loss?
- What are you talking about? - Being on the show.
(She plays innocent.)
You said you didn't feel like being on the show.
I didn't feel like it, but...
- Are you sitting against your will? - We'll see.
Have you seen Hello?
- Not really. - Oh, dear.
Do you watch baseball only?
Do you know who we are by any chance?
- Yes. - You know who I am?
- Shin Dong Yeob. - Shin Dong Yeob.
Where did you see me?
"TV Animal Farm".
(He's the owner of the farm indeed.)
(Shouting in joy)
What a clear response.
- Do you have a favorite player? - Yes.
- Who is it? - Lee Dae Ho.
The indisputable player number four.
- I envy him. - He was in Seattle Mariners...
- and came back. - He hit a home run.
How did you feel when you saw him come back?
- Since he came back, I'm glad. - You must be glad.
- It's nice that he's back. - Lee Dae Ho...
is a good batter, but he's a bit slow.
- What do you think? - He's still a good batter.
- He's a good batter. - He may be a bit slow,
but he's a strong player.
Ma'am, Lotte Giants...
lost to NC Dinos three games in a row recently.
I'm sorry.
- She looks upset. - NC Dinos?
- Why do you think they lost? - I'm not sure,
but we keep losing whenever we play against NC Dinos.
Last year, we kept losing to NC Dinos every time.
Do you want NC Dinos to disband?
That's not right.
The pitcher of NC Dinos...
(She says in a nice way, but she thinks otherwise.)
To find out how she watches...
baseball games in real life,
- we got Sun Joo to film her. - Really?
- That's right. - We asked her to film her secretly.
- The highlight. - He always hits home runs.
This one's another home run.
He must be possessed by a ghost.
I better offer a sacrifice to spirits with pork.
As soon as they got the third base...
They made a double play again.
(Gosh, we're doomed.)
How could that be a double play?
Naturally...
Oh, no.
She's so adorable.
Ma'am...
Are you watching baseball games on TV only?
No, she watches them on her smartphone.
That's very smart.
She asked me to get her a smartphone two years ago.
I got her one since she wanted it badly. As soon as...
she came home, she asked me how to watch baseball.
"Download an app to see the results."
- "Download the app." - "Download the app."
She knows what "app" is.
I was shocked at first.
- We're shocked too. - I downloaded it for her.
The 1st month's phone bill was 160 dollars.
- It's because of the data. - She used much data.
I called the phone carrier.
- "Something must be wrong." - "Something's wrong."
Then they said that she watched this and that program.
When we eat out, I'd like to talk a lot with her,
but even at restaurants, she watches...
baseball only with her smartphone.
- Gosh. - My goodness.
(Her eyes are fixed on her smartphone.)
She gets her phone to stand in a professional way.
- Exactly. - The location is perfect.
- I think it's nice. - We had a relative's funeral.
You can't play such thing at funerals,
- but she watched it. - At a funeral?
(She even watched a baseball game at a funeral!)
She talked about baseball while watching a game there.
She doesn't communicate. She only focuses on baseball.
(No one can stop her.)
Ma'am, isn't it better to see your grandchildren...
when you go see your family?
(Shaking her head)
- You're more curious about baseball? - My goodness.
That's right.
- Ma'am. - They're busy studying.
- She's honest. - She really is.
- She's really honest. - Exactly.
We'll hear from others too.
Sun Joo's mother is here as well.
- Hello. - Hello.
Your mother is really into baseball.
She's not just into it.
She's an ardent supporter of Lotte Giants.
I support Samsung Lions...
since I'm from North Gyeongsang Province.
Samsung Lions.
(She confesses as soon as she holds the microphone.)
(There's subtle tension between them.)
In fact, when Samsung Lions wins, I'm always careful.
I try to read her mind and say, "Samsung won."
Then she says, "Those stupid guys,"
"why did they lose like that?"
When she says that, I'd say,
"Right. Lotte Giants is doing very poorly."
Then she responds, "There are times when they're good."
"Go back home now!"
- "Go back home now." - She's offended.
I ended up going home sometimes.
She went home sometimes.
A mother and a daughter argue because of baseball.
- When others criticize... - How adorable.
that Lotte Giants plays poorly, how do you feel?
- I don't want to hear it. - Is that so?
(Glaring)
I think you really hate hearing such criticism.
I hate hearing such comments.
Your grandma is very unique,
- but your mom also likes baseball. - Exactly.
Exactly.
- My mom also likes baseball. - She sighed.
- Is that so? - My mom's pretty bad too...
because she goes to see away games.
- She goes to see games. - She goes to see games.
- She likes seeing them there. - She drinks too.
- She drinks alcohol. - She calls me after drinking.
- She's upset either way. - I'm also worried.
My mom goes to another town and drinks alcohol.
- You're worried. - It worries me in another way.
- My gosh. - Oh, dear.
Fried chicken and beer at stadiums are the best.
It's delicious.
Lions is last right now though.
That's right.
(She feels bad.)
It'll be calm in winter once the season is over.
- No, that's a problem too. - Why?
- She becomes quite depressed. - Depressed?
- She'd call me... - There's no joy in life.
- "There's no joy in life." - The fall baseball.
I mend old clothes.
- You're dexterous. - I also...
knit sweaters.
Then I hope that the baseball season would resume.
What are you most worried about?
What I'm afraid of is... Two years ago,
- my grandma fainted once. - My gosh.
- She went to the ER. - Due to her blood pressure?
Yes, because of her blood pressure.
I'm afraid the same thing would happen when she...
watches baseball since she gets upset and skips meals.
I'm so anxious and afraid.
- Baseball... - She likes it so much though.
You can't stop her from liking it.
How do you want your grandma to change?
I was raised by my grandma,
so I am very attached to her.
Last year, I told her that I thank her for raising me,
and she cried so much.
That's how lonely she has become,
- so I want to go see baseball together. - Together.
That'd be better.
Thinking how she'll keep spending time in her room...
- makes me so upset. - That's true.
What do you think?
Your granddaughter worries about you this much.
I'm always grateful to her.
You'd be really grateful.
"I don't have much time left in this world."
She often says it...
since last year.
That's why we're a bit more anxious.
The three of us planned on a trip to Japan,
but it was canceled several times.
- Due to baseball? - Due to baseball.
I'd like to tell her that we'd really like...
to go on a hot spring tour to Japan in May.
I'm always grateful to you, Mom.
- She takes the same path as Lotte Giants. - Exactly.
That's her destiny.
I really hope the team will finish first.
Exactly. Ma'am, didn't you go on a trip...
because Lotte Giants didn't perform well?
I didn't feel like going.
You didn't want to go?
She must really like baseball.
When they suggest you to go on a trip,
don't reject them because of baseball.
You'll regret a lot later on.
- All right. - You'll enjoy watching baseball,
but you'll also get some fresh air and have nice food.
If you listen to your daughter...
and your granddaughter's wish,
- I'll give you an amazing gift. - Really?
(I'll give you a gift.)
- Really? - All right.
- Are you sure? You promise? - Yes.
- You promise? - Yes.
- Your favorite Lee Dae Ho... - What kind of gift?
- Will he be here? - Will he be here?
(Will her favorite player Lee Dae Ho be on the show?)
He sent a video message just for you.
(Lee Dae Ho sent a video message for her.)
(My gosh, my Dae Ho sent me a video message?)
Lee Dae Ho.
(The video message plays.)
Hello, Mrs. Kim Jung Hee.
- Lee Dae Ho. - You know Lee Dae Ho, right?
Hello, Mrs. Kim Jung Hee.
- I'm Lee Dae Ho of Lotte Giants. - Hello.
I'd like to say hello to all the viewers of Hello.
I'd love to present myself on Hello,
but I'll be busy playing by the time you see this.
I heard you skip meals when Lotte Giants loses.
- No. - You mustn't do that.
- I won't do that from now. - Please eat well...
and come to the stadium to cheer us up.
- Please be healthy... - I will.
and come to Jamsil Baseball Stadium.
- Please be healthy... - I will.
(Ma'am, this is a video message.)
Cheer for us so the players of Lotte Giants...
and I can perform well.
- All right. - If you come see us with your family,
I'll give you a baseball bat with my autograph on it.
- Thank you. - Please be healthy and live long.
I love you!
(Laughing delightfully)
Ma'am, do a cheer for him.
Do a cheer for him.
- "Hey!" - "Hey!"
You had a video call...
with Lee Dae Ho.
- My gosh. - Thank you.
(You had a video call with Lee Dae Ho instead.)
She transformed a video message into a video call.
Isn't she truly amazing?
How do you feel now?
I feel really good.
I feel so good.
Why don't you also send a video message to Lee Dae Ho?
That's right.
(To Dae Ho Lee who made his comeback)
Thank you, Mr. Lee Dae Ho.
(Thank you, Mr. Lee Dae Ho.)
I want you to win this time anyhow.
Starting next month,
hit many home runs.
(Please hit many home runs.)
Thank you.
(I promise.)
Lastly, say a few words to your grandmother.
Grandma, I really thank you for coming here today.
I don't feel like this all the time...
Gosh, she's adorable.
I tend to be mean...
and blunt to you,
but that's all because I was worried about you.
Please eat well and join us when we suggest...
to go somewhere.
I love you.
- Please live long and healthy. - I love you too.
(I love you, Grandma. Please live long.)
We'll get Seung Hyun to vote first.
I don't think it's a worry.
- The fact that she's into something... - Exactly.
- is very good for her mental health. - That's right.
You figured out what your granddaughter thinks,
so I think you'll change. I don't think it's a worry.
I also think it's not a worry.
I hope she'll take care of her health.
- She promised Dae Ho earlier. - That's right.
That's why I don't think it's a worry.
Enjoy watching baseball with your granddaughter.
Please press the button if you empathize with her.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Time's up.
Ma'am, please say a few words...
to your daughter and your granddaughter.
My loving granddaughter,
you're so nice to me.
Thank you so much. I love you.
Say something to your daughter too.
I've been grateful to you too.
- Why is it period mark at the end? - I love you.
(I love you, my daughter.)
Please be happy and live long.
It was a time that enabled us to be...
- very happy. - I envy you, ma'am.
All right. Let's see how many votes...
she got. Show us the result.
(The result)
("I'm Anxious about My Grandmother")
"I'm Anxious about My Grandma".
(The last digit is eight!)
- I don't think it got over 100 votes. - I say 48.
- That's right. - It got 48 votes.
(She got 48 votes.)
"The Difficult Man" is the final winner of this week.
We will give the winner a gift certificate.
Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("Will You Go out with Me" by Dia)